Yet another sig change.

Here's a thought. You say you're not gay, and you're
effectively a lesbian. There will come a point where,
to all intents and purposes, you are female. Then you
would be gay. Or will there be a point where the hormones
start to make you fancy blokes?

Sorry if this is a bit personal, but I'm curious.

 

"Free" in that the price has gone up from what they were offering them at
last year?

 

Butbutbut you're blonde. You must have had the
op at some point. Maybe you've forgotten.

 

Probably unlikely, as it seems that hormones have very little to do with
sexual preference.

 

Well, it would probably be a different matter if you fancied blokes. :-S
I don't really have a lot of experience with transgender issues, so
couldn't really offer advice, but my ears are always open if you want
someone to talk to, nonetheless.

 

top tip: don't run upstairs, braless.

Sorted.

 

Has it? I wasn't paying that much attention to it. I've binned my
copy of MCN with the ad on the back now.

 

Noooo, not just yet, if it's all the same to you.

Oh, that's not a euphemism, is it?

 

That explains it then.


I said I would answer questions honestly and bluntly so here goes:

All my life my social conscience has dictated my sexual orientation even
though I didn’t look at girls and think WOW I really fancy that. I liked
them and I still went out with them. I wasn’t motivated by sex, I’m
still not but I do like female company. All the girls on here who’ve met
me know how much I like a good cuddle. I could easily sleep with another
girl just for cuddles and company. On the other hand I have never been
attracted to males even though a few (in my yoot) had made a pass at me
which actually made my skin crawl at the time. This was probably a
reaction based on social conditioning rather than chemistry. Most
transsexuals feel no sexual desire, don’t forget, testosterone is
responsible for sex drive in both sexes and if it’s being blocked you
sex drive is removed. In Male to Female (MtF) transsexuals the prostrate
gland is shrunk by the action of the medication therefore quite a
reduction in seamen is experienced but sexual function still exists.



There’s a difference between sex drive and sexual function, I can still
function sexually (get an erection) but I don’t have drive. Don’t forget
the sensations a male gets through the penis is the same that a female
gets through a clitoris but because females don’t have large blood sacks
that get very hard and reduces sensitivity more feeling is transmitted.
In gender reassignment surgery a clitoris is formed from the male nerve
endings and afterward the patient can experience a full orgasm however
only about 5% actually go on to experience penetrative sex. I spent last
Saturday with quite a famous transsexual who has become a great friend
of mine. She made the front page of most national newspapers a few years
ago and has appeared on many chat shows. She is in the US at the moment
appearing on CNN. This person is A-sexual (sp) she never had and doesn’t
want sex. She still has male genitalia and sees no reason to have gender
re-assignment surgery (note I didn’t say sex change?). she is very
happy, very wealthy and very good looking.



I’ve met quite a few transsexuals and transvestites and I have felt an
attraction towards them even though I knew them to be male. To be honest
quite a few red blooded males on here would find them attractive as
well, they are utterly convincing and utterly gorgeous. I really don’t
know if I would ever fancy a male, waking up next to someone with
stubble somehow doesn’t seem very attractive. I’m not ruling it out
completely. If I fall in love again gender will not come into it. I have
always been a loving and tender person and this is how I made love. I
could never do the slam bang thank you ma’am. I much prefer love and
tenderness to sexual gratification.



I know this is an in depth answer and one that you probably didn’t
expect. But it’s the truth.



Will I ever fancy a man? I don’t know but I won’t ever rule it out.

 

<sigh of relief that I didn't order any>

Bald it is TYVM.

 

See my reply to Steve.

 

This is what gets me. Alaso when I go out running.

So can I.

 

I read this as "I can't get a shag anywhere and I'm just wondering if...."

 

Insult her? I've got a hole dug in the back garden in case she drops by
some day.

 

You are confusing me with Cane.

HTH

 

Thanks Jen, you've been very supportive over the past few months and I
will never forget that. You wait when we storm your town, it will never
recover.

Funny enough a few people have said this and you're right about the
friends.

 

if...."


Has romance totally disappeared? ;o)

 

lighten up

 

how many sailors did you have before?