[QUOTE] It really doesn't bother me either way TBH. When I was with my sisters a few week ago everything was going great, I was totally accepted and no one really had a clue about me. I went up to the bar to pay for the meal and my youngest sister (ex Miss Wales) said. Oh he'll pay" as she pointed to me. The lady behind the bar looked at me then shock her head and just thought it was a joke.[/QUOTE] LOL. Brilliant - that must have been a boost to self confidence. Rowdy