[QUOTE] Why do americans think it such a heinous insult to accuse someone of being gay?[/QUOTE] Because that makes them an agent of Teh Debbi, bent on the destrcutio of the First Amendment, or something, and they probably haven't even got the 10 commandments on the Town Hall doorl, and that's double-plus ungood. Which is why the Almighty sent a tidal wave to Japan - because of legalised same-sex marriages in some states of the union. A warning from Heaven. Obvious when you sit down and think about it.