[QUOTE="Ace"] Where I come from, mardy means spiteful, in a "It's my ball and I'm not playing" kind of way. "Mard-arsed" would be about equivalent. "Soft cunt" is a long way from it, however you choose to define the latter.[/QUOTE] I've always taken it that "mardy" means you're a bit of a cry-baby, whereas "mard-arsed" implies the spiteful/sulky elements too. It's an odd turn of phrase really.