I'm trying to wean my wife off expensive German cars (Beemers, Audis, VWs etc) but she's got it in her head they are the only cars that will guarantee our kids' safety in the event of a crash. So we've been looking at various 5-6 year old A4 Avant TDIs which are all the wrong side of £6k for my liking - even accepting the fact we're only going to get a high-mileage model for our money. I'm a bit clueless but can't help thinking there must be some really good quality alternatives. Our main requirements are a) space (prefer an estate) b) safety c) economy (diesel?) d) reliability & e) build-quality. Can anyone suggest something that fits the bill? Which manufacturers come close to BMW/Audi/VW build quality & reliability? Presumably Saabs are in the same price bracket. I'm not too proud to have a Skoda if they're any good! A Japanese car would be fine if it was roomy enough. Some sort of newish Mazda estate just drove past the house and that looked quite tasty. Any advice gratefully received.