And I know there will be the usual "who cares" chorus but I'm posting this for me so those who don't care can just mark the thread as read and move on. We are now only a 2 cat family - one of our 18-year olds had the final visit to the vet on Saturday. His kidneys had packed up and he couldn't eat (tongue, mouth and throat ulcers from the failed kidneys) and was only sporadically drinking. After a night on a drip he was much better but would only have ever got worse again. We had a final 15 minutes with him in the sunshine with him purring at us in his old manner before he got given the final dose to put him out. Ho hum. The bed seems strangely empty without him asleep on my feet at nights. Phil.