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Bless. I'll drop you an email later and explain all.

 

Your story reads like two of one things[1]; one, it looks like a
*very* elaborate wind-up that might actually not be, OTOH it
looks like a true story that might actually be a wind-up.

So I'm left wondering whether supporting you could leave me
looking like utter twat when and *if* "all is revealed", or OTOH
whether being cynical means I let you down through my own fear of
looking foolish.

Hmmm.

**** it, I'm no stranger to looking a ****[2].. How the hell are
you Molly?

[1] Yes I meant to say that.
[2] I reserve the right to go fucking bright red on said
occasions.

 

It's all in your mind honey.

Actually, there's not many on UKRM that I would want to. And there are
certainly not many who could maintain my lifestyle.

Saying that, I would probably make someone a good husband.

I can ....
Cook
Sew
Iron
Do the plumbing
Arrange flowers
Fix cars and bikes
Do the electrics
Fix televisions and electrical things
And I do know what men like ;-)

 

Yehbut you have to queue, now.

This is a bit personal, but do you still get away with having
a quick pee behind a hedge? That would blow the mind of
anyone who saw you.

 

I wish it was a wind up then I could sit back and laugh instead of
going through the horrendous pain, rejection and suffering that I'm
still going through and still have lots more to come. What a lot of
people think is that this is a life style choice and that I'm a bloke
dressing up. But in reality I've always been a female but one with a
medical problem which is being fixed. Hell, I've even got my own hair
now.

If you are still having a tough time accepting it you can always read
about it in Best Magazine or see it on Discovery and Channel 4 next
year.

 

I often do sit down to pee. If I can't find the light
switch, or I'm on the boat and there's not a lot of
room in the heads.

When's the big op?

 

But the queuing is so much fun, we talk about lots of things.

I know a few genetic women who have a quick pee behind the hedge. I
did once and it felt so strange. I much prefer to sit down. You should
try it sometimes, it quite relaxing and you don't get your shoes wet.
Of course after my main operation I will have to learn to pee all over
again.

 

The one & only time I've seen a serious ruck in a club was when a
transexual/cross-dresser (I know not which) used the ladies loos. When
he/she came out, the group of blokes waiting by the door got a bit
upset about a man being in the toilets with their girlfriends & kicked
the shit out of him/her.

 

I think the term "accepting it" has at least two meanings.

Accepting "it" is no problem for me, none whatsoever. Accepting
it is true, 100% and without reservation, is the difficult bit.
That isn't helped (for me) by the fact I've never actually met
you IRL.

However, I've always thought you were a good 'un and that hasn't
changed one bit, regardless of whether you're a bloke, a girl or
a seriously bored piss-taker.

 

Best of luck, then.

 

I can sympathise with their actions but I don't condone them. I have
met some crossdressers/transvestites and quite frankly they are blokes
in frocks. A lot do it for sexual reasons. A lot also dress because
they can't help it. I don't meet up with any other trans people. I
have corresponded with Claire, the booker prize winner. She wanted to
meet up, she/he's a biker y'know. I prefer to live my life as a
normal, crazy, stunt riding, idiot, transsexual bike racing
grandmother.

For me it was never about dressing, make up or anything like that. It
was about identity and wanted to be accepted as a female. You can make
you mind up if I look like a female or a bloke here:
www.molly.org.uk

Very often when at a UKRM meet I used to get teased about my boobs. I
took it in good heart but inside I was crying. I wanted to say, but
I'm a woman, what do you expect? But I couldn't. Then they were barely
a 38C, and all who copped a feel can testify. Now, they're a 36DD.
This is mostly due to the fact that I have very little muscle now. Oh,
I've also got HIPS.

I am legally a female and to be honest, if you met me you probably
would know that I wasn't born a female. I live my life exclusively as
a female and no one is the wiser. However, the dilemma I faced was
whether I should disappear or not. If I started a new life and severed
all my ties with the past it would have been easy for me. Nothing to
explain, no ridicule etc. Quite a lot of transsexuals do this. You may
have met one or two but didn't know. I decided that I wouldn't hide
but face up to people and bollocks to it. After all, I love biking and
I really do like being on this group and meeting the people from the
group. Why should I hide? I didn't ask for this. Those who have meet
me has said how ordinary it is. One of the biggest misconceptions is
transvestites/crossdressers.

Transsexualism is a recognised physiological medical condition that
requires years of painful treatment, professional counseling and
psychiatric assessments. I repeat; transsexuallity is recognised
medical condition. It is not a lifestyle choice.



Gender and Sex are very separate things, though the terms are often
considered interchangeable by the less aware. However, with regard to
the dilemma of the transsexual, the difference between sex and gender
are at the very core of the issue.



A transsexual person, born to all appearance within a given physical
sex, is aware of being of a gender opposite to that physical sex. This
conflict, between gender identity and physical sex, is almost always
manifest from earliest awareness, and is the cause of enormous
suffering. It is common for transsexuals to be aware of their
condition at preschool ages or in my case at the age of four.



This agony can and does lead to self destruction unless treated. The
incredible difficulties that surround achieving treatment are
themselves often agonizing, the sum total of which can play havoc with
the lives of the gender dysphoric. Indeed, it is apparent and very sad
that some fifty percent of transsexuals die by age 30, usually by
their own hand.



Being a transsexual is not something that can be ignored or suppressed
forever it will ultimately reach a crisis point and it's that point
which determines your future. Some commit suicide. Some seek refuge in
narcotics and some fall into a life of prostitution and pornography.
Unlike the fascinations of the crossdresser the absolute compulsion of
classical transsexualism is a matter of life and death. Social
oppression, culturally indoctrinated shame, self loathing, and bigotry
slaughter transsexuals. With treatment and support come survival and a
successful life. The success rate for the treatment of transsexuals is
among the highest in medicine.



The standard treatment for a diagnosis of transsexuallity is to
reassign the transsexual to a physical sex congruent with their gender
identity, a process involving the administration of appropriate
hormones and surgery. The success of this treatment is exceedingly
high, and many transsexuals go on to live successful lives.





Transsexuallity differs greatly from the commonly - and erroneously -
associated terms "Crossdressing" or "Transvestitism", as well as "drag
queens".



I hope this makes it a bit clearer

Blimey, I did go on a bit.

 

Cheers

 

Who was it that said that 'all men aren't the same' a few days ago ? Can
we hear it again ? I need a laugh ...

 

Paging Doubting Thomas. I have a Mr Jesus Josephson^^^daughter on line 2
for you.

 

You're a better woman than I am then (!). I didn't sympathise at all -
I thought 'what a bunch of ignorant twats'.

 

I can sympathise with them wanting to protect their wives. So TV's do
actually prey on women. Some don't.

 

*snigger*

That got me.

 

Nobody can say you're not a real woman. Get you started,
and we can't shut you up.

 

'protecting' their wives involves protecting them from harm. Beating up
some guy whom you suspect of chatting up your wife (even if he did) comes
under 'protecting your property', and that's just the problem with 98% of
guys; they think that women are their property.